Gandhi My Father

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by amreekandesi

We always think about Mahatma Gandhi as the freedom fighter, fighting for Indias independence, leading millions of people in protest against the British, liberating the country in his own unique way. What about Gandhi the person, a husband and father of four children?

The movie Gandhi My Father takes a close look at one of Mahatma Gandhis lifes biggest personal regrets. A rare movie that talks about his family and the problems in his own personal life. That he was able to rise above them in achieving what he did is just an illustration of his being the great man that he was.

It isnt easy being great. It is harder being a father when you have greater things to achieve. This movie is about Gandhi and his relationship with his eldest son, Harilal Gandhi

The movie starts off with a young Gandhi (Darshan Jariwala) before that incident at Pietermaritzburg which made him plunge into the fight for civic rights. He is a lawyer. He is happily married with kids. All but one are with him. The one who isnt, his eldest son, is in Rajkot. Hari Lal.

HariLal (Akshaye Khanna) gets married to Gulab (Bhoomika Chawla) without taking his fathers permission, and Gandhi being the strict father that he is, is offended. Harilal soon comes to South Africa, and gets involved in Gandhis work. He in fact becomes the first Satyagrahi in South Africa, and goes to jail. But somewhere inside him theres this desire to be free of his father who makes all decisions, even the decision to send Gulab back to India even as he was still in jail. He wants to study, become a lawyer, lead a happy family life where he makes money to feed his family. He wants to take his own decisions.

He quits. And goes back to India. Only his abilities dont match his ambitions. He fails his matric (10th grade) exams three times, and is unable to find any job. So much for becoming a lawyer. His household, meanwhile, is running with money coming from South Africa. Gandhi still wants him to join his movement and he keeps refusing.

Meanwhile Gandhi is done with South Africa and returns to India.

I know i couldnt be the ideal son you wanted, but you are responsible for that. I wasnt always like this. My hands shake as i write this. I am sorry. Harilal writes in a letter to his father.
Gandhi tells Ba (Shefali Shah) - My son is brave, but wrong. The good thing is that he is willing to fight for his principles, even if it is against me

Harilal goes his separate way. Only to commit fraud at his job. The job he got because of is fathers name. Soon people start banging on the doors trying to recover the money they trusted him with. Gulab soon leaves him because she cannot support his corrupt dealings anymore. His son dies soon. Then she dies.

Gandhi asks him to move in to the ashram. Life seems to be getting back on track.

Not for long. Some industrialists involve Harilal in a corrupt scheme involving Gandhis name. He is in heavy debt. People lose their life savings investing in this fraudulent venture. Eventually Gandhi has to publicly disown Harilal Gandhi.

Things get worse. He converts to Islam. Gandhi is hurt, but still loves him.

Harilal or Abdulla, they both mean the same thing. Son of God. If he changed his religion, that doesnt mean that our love for him should grow any less. He tells Ba (his wife - Kasturba)

Things go out of hand soon. Eventually Harilal converts back to Hinduism. But that doesnt change things much. He is still a drunken, depraved mess of a man who has no clue what to do with his life. Ba dies with Harilals name on her lips wishing he was with them.

India gets Independance, though not the one Gandhi wanted. Millions are killed in the rioting all over the country. Gandhi has two regrets in his life - Mohammad Ali Jinnah, and Harilal Gandhi.

In his last days, Gandhi keeps wondering if things would have been different had his son been with him. Harilal is nowhere to be found. Gandhi dies felled by a fundamentalist bullet, and Harilal watches the funeral of his own father from the sidelines.

He dies a few months later, unknown, unsung, and unidentified. A man who couldnt bear the burden of being the son of a great man. A man who tried to chart his own destiny but whose name wouldnt let him lead a normal life. A man who couldnt be the son of the father of the nation.